I am using a MBPro with High Sierra.

When I click on the WI-FI, the dropdown menu will remain visible as long as it is still finding/adding possible networks to join - which, for the area I am in, there are dozens.

When no more can be found - or one is selected - the dropdown menu disappears.

Look in your (Apple) SYSTEM PREFERENCES. Is the "Ask to join new networks" box checked?