The answer I found for this problem is to set the server to not automatically delete spam but save it in a folder and send daily spam reports to me.
The MAJOR offender on the spam list is all the .pw emails.
http://www.symantec.com/connect/blogs/rise-pw-urls-spam-messages .aol is on the list so what I do is block .aol and then add the legitimate mail I get from there to my address book at the server.
All those spoofs that Artie505 and I were discussing are coming from .pw now.
