push notifications enabled on your iPhone?
Yes
Make sure that all of the devices that you want to be included in sharing are using the same iCloud ID.
Then on the devices, under Settings/Preferences>iCloud, you will see a list of shareable items; check Calendar if it is not already selected.
How I do I verify my iCloud ID? I would have thought this is a non issue as my email pushes & shares as desired.
Yes, Calendar is enabled in Settings/Preferences>iCloud/sharable items.
Gads, this is driving me mad...