Since they are both the same network there really isn't any way to force which it chooses. Personally I wouldn't worry about it.
Good advice
Originally Posted By: kevs
Is this normal, and unavoidable on non Apple extenders?
No, not normal with non-Apple extenders. It may be your brand, your setup, your electromagnetic neighborhood. Lots of variables here, as previously described.
On a Mac since 1984. Currently: 24" M1 iMac, M2 Pro Mac mini with 27" BenQ monitor, M2 Macbook Air, MacOS 14.x; iPhones, iPods (yes, still) and iPads.
