I figured that, as a parent, I had many "rights" where her upbringing was concerned but there was one thing I did not have a right to do. I did not have the right to kill her father.
That's just the flip side of the personal choice for which V1, with whom I concur, has been arguing, isn't it?
The new Great Equalizer is the SEND button.
In Memory of Harv: Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities. ~Voltaire