As to Lil Snitch, I second Artie's recommendation to try it before you buy it. Because he and others have rhapsodized about how wonderful it is so often and so long, I decided to try it. My conclusion is that it does what it works well, does what it purports to do, and could be useful; but personaly I found it intolerably annoying and deleted it.
Although many of us have endorsed Little Snitch, I don't recall anybody ever having professed feelings about it that even approached rhapsodizing.
I wonder if you installed version 2 or 3, the latter being considerably more annoying than the former was.
My biggest problem with v 3 (I posted about it a while back.) was that it presented me with an absurd number of connection requests from every website I visited, which I ultimately realized resulted from the devs having dropped the v 2 default rules that allowed all connection requests from WebKit to either port 80 (http) or port 443 (https); restoring those rules made my life considerably easier.
My remaining big problem with v 3 is that it pops-up an awful lot of requests from system processes, which I suspect is because of the devs having dropped additional v 2 default rules.
From where I stand, there's no purpose to the volume of connection requests that LS makes me deal with, particularly because the dev's database has got mostly non-specific, generic reasons for them...when it's got any reasons at all, and, accordingly, I've got no way to evaluate the requests on which I'm being asked to pass judgement.
Perhaps the devs would consider this "dummy mode", but I'd be an awful lot happier with LS if it offered a pref to allow, forever, all call-out requests from system processes, except those related to location services, and all requests from Apple installed apps with the exception of Mail and Safari.
And by bizarre coincidence, LS's dev team just this second responded to my feature request for "
an option in Little Snitch to allow, by default, any request to call out by OS X/macOS system functions and Apple apps other than Safari and Mail" with "
We will provide such managed rules with the forthcoming major release Little Snitch version 4." (There's a public beta of v 4 which I may try.)
By the way, I fully understand your having deleted LS, particularly if it was v 3 which requires an awful lot of user interaction to defend against an almost non-existent threat. Had I know in advance what its installation was going to entail I probably wouldn't have paid for the upgrade, and I just might ditch it altogether rather than pay for v 4.
Paranoia is a phenomenal sales tool!