I turned on the "rejoin room at login" option for a chat room, and now I can't stop it from trying to join the chat room anytime ichat opens or I reconnect to internet. How do you stop it from doing that once it's remembered it?

so nobody knows?

Hi, Virtual1

These links might be false trails for you. They are the result of not knowing, just guessing.

auto login

How do stop automatic login?

10.5: Start iChat without auto-login