Almost there Virtual, thanks ; it's not that consistent. The home may re-check itself in a few weeks or who knows when.
Also: A new gremlin comes in now: below all that (below on my mac, and icloud), a new checkbox comes up (sometimes now) saying, "from events" or contacts, something else or now I can't remember, it has a light brown look. I don't even know what events they are pulling from, but I deleted that twice, using right click, delete, and it comes back whenever.